• As I See It

    Strange(r)

    This move has been a culture shock. As much as I adore the diversity and free minds of California sometimes its a lot, sometimes I feel incredibly alienated from reality here. By birth, I’m a California Girl, by choice I’m Southern. I’m open…

  • Side B

    The Pursuit of Happiness Tour 2018

    I’ve done it! I’ve trekked across our nation, traded grits for couscous….AND I’M BACK IN THE BAY! My lover turned strictly platonic friend Tara and I loaded up her Jeep and set sail for a 14.5 day 8 state road-plane-roadtrip.…

  • SLAY,  Uncategorized

    The Last Slay

    Slay Atlanta is an event I birthed out of my not loving the party life in Atlanta. I mean when I first moved here (many moons ago) Atlanta nightlife for lesbians was amazing. Well, to be fully honest I’m not…

  • Side B

    Keep Your Head to the Sky

    I really don’t know why I wrote this… Maybe to help y’all, maybe to admit depression is STILL very present in my life. I grew up in a household where happiness wasn’t a priority. I was often times made to…

  • As I See It

    Friends with Exes

    People have lead me to believe that not being friends with your exes is a sign of immaturity. And, I must admit that I’ve mistakenly gave in to this erroneous notion. Now, there are some exes and past flings I…

  • Side B

    20SLAYteen

    2018 So, 2017 has come and gone and there’s one more year behind me where I’ve been less than productive in my creative realms. Sure, I knocked hella goals out when it came to SLAY…. But, somehow my baby, my…

  • Dating

    Tired of First Dates

    I know I’ve said time and time again that I’m “done dating” and me being the lover of love that I am- I’m rapidly smitten by another woman. Here’s the thing I’m hella tired of awkward interactions and first dates.…

  • SLAY

    we are turning 2!!!

    It’s our anniversary and we are doing it BIG! We have DJ Boogie Lov AND DJ DIMPLES supplying sounds for y’all!, a complementary champagne toast gifted by yours trul, basically a super sweet event where people will actually be dancing…