• Tippin Out

    The Time I spent 3 weeks in Atlanta

    So as I told y’all I let Brittny (my favorite ex) convince me into extending my trip to Atlanta to include Atlanta’s Black Pride Celebration. By the time pride rolled around ya girl was certifiably EXHAUSTED of not being home.…

  • O&A

    So Oakland Day Fest 2019

    This’ll be a short post. What I find most odd about my year back home in The Bay Area is I usually have the most fun at queer friendly (but not exclusive) majority straight day parties. I met So Oakland’s…

  • Dating

    That One Time I tried Polyamory

    So, yall…. I’ve been missing for a while. Whats new… right? I wish I had a reason I could blame my absenteeism on or something in particular. But, honestly ya girl has been working sickening gigs in tech making decent…

  • As I See It

    Let’s be Clear

    Soooo I have this habit of asking women who are on my line “what is your intention?” It helps to clear any confusion. I mean I don’t ask EVERY person this but once things start to feel a little flirty…

  • RECPIE OF THE WEEK

    Stuffed Salmon

    I thoroughly enjoy stuffing things- it’s visually impressive and it’s layers on the palate with minimal work. I promise it’s easy and yumm AF! I served this with lightly sauteed garlic spinach. There’s no need for salt because the goat cheese,…

  • Side B

    End of an Era- bye EeJay

    I’ve told you all how I miss Atlanta on a daily basis. The southern pleasantries I took for granted are gravely missed. I enjoy what the Bay Area has to offer but not half as much as miss what it…

  • As I See It

    Doing what I NEED vs what I want.

    If moving to California hasn’t done anything else for me- it has made me challenge my comfort. I insisted on staying in Atlanta despite my floundering because it was comfortable. I knew people and the area, I am something of…