• O&A

    So Oakland Day Fest 2019

    This’ll be a short post. What I find most odd about my year back home in The Bay Area is I usually have the most fun at queer friendly (but not exclusive) majority straight day parties. I met So Oakland’s…

  • Dating

    That One Time I tried Polyamory

    So, yall…. I’ve been missing for a while. Whats new… right? I wish I had a reason I could blame my absenteeism on or something in particular. But, honestly ya girl has been working sickening gigs in tech making decent…

  • As I See It

    Let’s be Clear

    Soooo I have this habit of asking women who are on my line “what is your intention?” It helps to clear any confusion. I mean I don’t ask EVERY person this but once things start to feel a little flirty…

  • RECPIE OF THE WEEK

    Stuffed Salmon

    I thoroughly enjoy stuffing things- it’s visually impressive and it’s layers on the palate with minimal work. I promise it’s easy and yumm AF! I served this with lightly sauteed garlic spinach. There’s no need for salt because the goat cheese,…

  • Side B

    End of an Era- bye EeJay

    I’ve told you all how I miss Atlanta on a daily basis. The southern pleasantries I took for granted are gravely missed. I enjoy what the Bay Area has to offer but not half as much as miss what it…

  • As I See It

    Doing what I NEED vs what I want.

    If moving to California hasn’t done anything else for me- it has made me challenge my comfort. I insisted on staying in Atlanta despite my floundering because it was comfortable. I knew people and the area, I am something of…

  • Dating

    Modus Operandi

    Ok, as I spoke of in my last post I’ve been feeling like I could be open to the idea of love again. With that said, ya girl is out here dating and playing by my own rules. It’s nice…

  • Dating

    All the Feels

    Hey kittens, I’m settling in ok… I mean I can walk again (I was out 50 days) I started a lil temp gig that seems like a good fit (the view from my desk is sick’nin af!) Ya girl Is…