Love don’t live here anymore
Bruh!!! The Hopeful Romantic is honestly not out here romancing!! I love the concept of love and the relationships I’ve been in were a dope feeling until they weren’t anymore. If you’re a regular here you know I’m for good for…
that one time I broke my ankle
Okay, no excuses… I’ve been kind of out of touch. On October 30th around 7:45 pm I broke my ankle. YES, as I excitedly readied myself for Halloween I had 5 steps to make on the 4th step my ankle…
Strange(r)
This move has been a culture shock. As much as I adore the diversity and free minds of California sometimes its a lot, sometimes I feel incredibly alienated from reality here. By birth, I’m a California Girl, by choice I’m Southern. I’m open…
The Pursuit of Happiness Tour 2018
I’ve done it! I’ve trekked across our nation, traded grits for couscous….AND I’M BACK IN THE BAY! My lover turned strictly platonic friend Tara and I loaded up her Jeep and set sail for a 14.5 day 8 state road-plane-roadtrip.…
The Last Slay
Slay Atlanta is an event I birthed out of my not loving the party life in Atlanta. I mean when I first moved here (many moons ago) Atlanta nightlife for lesbians was amazing. Well, to be fully honest I’m not…
Forever I Love Atlanta
After kinda going back and forth about it for quite some time I’ve decided to leave Atlanta. I moved here nearly 15 years ago for college (Yikes!) And after the culture shock wore off I fell so deep in love…
Keep Your Head to the Sky
I really don’t know why I wrote this… Maybe to help y’all, maybe to admit depression is STILL very present in my life. I grew up in a household where happiness wasn’t a priority. I was often times made to…
Friends with Exes
People have lead me to believe that not being friends with your exes is a sign of immaturity. And, I must admit that I’ve mistakenly gave in to this erroneous notion. Now, there are some exes and past flings I…
Good things come, to those who… DESERVE IT!
So, surprise- surprise… I’VE BEEN DATING! I don’t wanna jump ahead of myself or speak too soon- but she is downright amazing! We met on OKC (yes, the dating app I met Amina on *eye roll*). I got bored one…
20SLAYteen
2018 So, 2017 has come and gone and there’s one more year behind me where I’ve been less than productive in my creative realms. Sure, I knocked hella goals out when it came to SLAY…. But, somehow my baby, my…