As I See It

rants... of a more ranty variety

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    Let’s be Clear

    Soooo I have this habit of asking women who are on my line “what is your intention?” It helps to clear any confusion. I mean I don’t ask EVERY person this but once things start to feel a little flirty…

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    Doing what I NEED vs what I want.

    If moving to California hasn’t done anything else for me- it has made me challenge my comfort. I insisted on staying in Atlanta despite my floundering because it was comfortable. I knew people and the area, I am something of…

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    Strange(r)

    This move has been a culture shock. As much as I adore the diversity and free minds of California sometimes its a lot, sometimes I feel incredibly alienated from reality here. By birth, I’m a California Girl, by choice I’m Southern. I’m open…

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    Friends with Exes

    People have lead me to believe that not being friends with your exes is a sign of immaturity. And, I must admit that I’ve mistakenly gave in to this erroneous notion. Now, there are some exes and past flings I…

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    So much hate….

    I’ve struggled for a few days with this post as I know I have a social responsibility as a LGBT blogger and as a human to speak out during times like this. I’m having a hard time wrapping my mind…

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    the day doves cried

    Like most 80’s Babies I was raised on Prince’s music (and movies), I vividly remember the 1991 MTV Awards and the yellow suit with the butt cheeks cut out, I even remember rolling my eyes at my Mom to the…

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    Down the Rabbit Hole

    I hardly ever remember the moment I fell in love- I do, however, always remember when I fell out of love. Not only do I remember when I fell out of love I also remember what I was wearing, where…