Hey little lesbians- I\u2019ve been thinking about the Six Degrees of Separation as it applies to lesbian interactions especially in Atlanta, GA. In case you don\u2019t know anything about the Six Degrees of Separation theory let me give you a little lesson. Six degrees of separation\u00a0is the philosophy\u00a0that everyone and everything is six or fewer steps away, by way of introduction, from any other person in the world, so that a chain of “a friend of a friend” statements can be made to connect any two people in six steps at most. So think about it, there\u2019s like 0-1 degrees of separation when it comes to lesbianism (well at least in Atlanta). I keep saying \u201cin Atlanta\u201d because this is where I live. I don\u2019t know a damn about Milwaukee Dykin.<\/p>\n
So, I\u2019ve been seeing this delightful woman, Little Miss Love Song, I haven\u2019t written about her\/us because I\u2019ve given my word that I wouldn\u2019t. I really have so many nice things to say but let me stop before I infringe on our agreement. Anyway, She asked me about the women I\u2019d been seeing previous to when she and I started seeing each other. She called out a random woman from my past that I\u2019d gone on 7-11 dates with recently. This chick I call Little Miss Inconsistent- because she is just that\u2026 mixed signal slinging, pop up as she pleases etc. Hence why I haven\u2019t written about her, She\u2019s not around enough. Let me get back on track. Little Miss Love Song and Little Miss Inconsistent are acquainted through one or two mutual friends. While this lack of separation is annoying it\u2019s not problematic for me.<\/p>\n
The rundown: One of my good friends ex-girlfriends is the now boo of my bestie from my late teens and early twenties. Shit, if we\u2019re going to be honest I\u2019m \u201cguilty\u201d of seeing someone who is an ex of woman that I\u2019ve been shall we say\u2026. Friendly with. Little Miss Asshole is sorta besties with someone I\u2019ve been intimate with. So I say all of this to ask a question; does the lack of degrees of separation make it impossible to maintain the \u201cG-code\u201d? G-code meaning you don\u2019t deal with someone who is cool with someone you\u2019ve dealt with in the past and\/or ex boo of your friend\u2019s homegirl. I feel it\u2019s not impossible to maintain the G-code but it could be wasted efforts. Like don\u2019t be a complete ho about it, don\u2019t be the smash n\u2019 pass between a crew. But if the bitches ain\u2019t \u201cbruhs\u201d is it cool? Like where do you draw the line? Birds of a feather flock together, so quality bitches are bound to know each other if only just in passing.<\/p>\n
Shit is stressful if you let it be, luckily for me\u2026 I don\u2019t do stress. I\u2019m grown, I\u2019m not malicious, and I\u2019m mindful of karma and people\u2019s feelings. But really, what\u2019s a girl to do?!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hey little lesbians- I\u2019ve been thinking about the Six Degrees of Separation as it applies to lesbian interactions especially in Atlanta, GA. In case you don\u2019t know anything about the Six Degrees of Separation theory let me give you a little lesson. Six degrees of separation\u00a0is the philosophy\u00a0that everyone and everything is six or fewer steps away, by way of introduction, from any other person in the world, so that a chain of “a friend of a friend” statements can be made to connect any two people in six steps at most. So think about it, there\u2019s like 0-1 degrees of separation when it comes to lesbianism (well at least in Atlanta). I keep saying \u201cin Atlanta\u201d because this is where I live. I don\u2019t know a damn about Milwaukee Dykin. So, I\u2019ve been seeing this delightful woman, Little Miss Love Song, I haven\u2019t written about her\/us because I\u2019ve given my word that I wouldn\u2019t. I really have so many nice things to say but let me stop before I infringe on our agreement. Anyway, She asked me about the women I\u2019d been seeing previous to when she and I started seeing each other. She called out a random woman from my past that I\u2019d gone on 7-11 dates with recently. This chick I call Little Miss Inconsistent- because she is just that\u2026 mixed signal slinging, pop up as she pleases etc. Hence why I haven\u2019t written about her, She\u2019s not around enough. Let me get back on track. Little Miss Love Song and Little Miss Inconsistent are acquainted through one or two mutual friends. While this lack of separation is annoying it\u2019s not problematic for me. The rundown: One of my good friends ex-girlfriends is the now boo of my bestie from my late teens and early twenties. Shit, if we\u2019re going to be honest I\u2019m \u201cguilty\u201d of seeing someone who is an ex of woman that I\u2019ve been shall we say\u2026. Friendly with. Little Miss Asshole is sorta besties with someone I\u2019ve been intimate with. So I say all of this to ask a question; does the lack of degrees of separation make it impossible to maintain the \u201cG-code\u201d? G-code meaning you don\u2019t deal with someone who is cool with someone you\u2019ve dealt with in the past and\/or ex boo of your friend\u2019s homegirl. I feel it\u2019s not impossible to maintain the G-code but it could be wasted efforts. Like don\u2019t be a complete ho about it, don\u2019t be the smash n\u2019 pass between a crew. But if the bitches ain\u2019t \u201cbruhs\u201d is it cool? Like where do you draw the line? Birds of a feather flock together, so quality bitches are bound to know each other if only just in passing. Shit is stressful if you let it be, luckily for me\u2026 I don\u2019t do stress. I\u2019m grown, I\u2019m not malicious, and I\u2019m mindful of karma and people\u2019s feelings. 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