{"id":175,"date":"2014-01-31T15:56:34","date_gmt":"2014-01-31T15:56:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/littlemisslesbo.wordpress.com\/?p=175"},"modified":"2014-01-31T15:56:34","modified_gmt":"2014-01-31T15:56:34","slug":"its-not-me-its-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/littlemisslesbo.com\/?p=175","title":{"rendered":"Its Not Me- Its You."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>    Last week I was at Bible Study when I heard something that really stuck with me \u201cJust because they aren\u2019t for you doesn\u2019t mean they are a bad a person\u201d Sounds like a simple thought for most; but for me personally I have a really tough time cutting people off who are generally good and probably GREAT mates for someone else. Learning to tactfully trim people from your life is essential no matter how good they are especially when it comes to matters of the heart. The trick is letting the people go for real not just sending them on a sabbatical.<br \/>\n    I will finally go on record and say Little Miss Asshole would be an outstanding woman for a girl who can deal with her. I am almost certain I am not that girl. She is sensitive, attractive, gainfully employed, loves to shop, well spoken, educated, likes shoes and really finds joy in purchasing them for her mate etc. However it\u2019s not a package that will keep me satisfied. It\u2019s like this: women are like food some are main courses (the protein), others are side dishes (girls that are good little side pieces but won\u2019t ever be enough on their own), while some are desserts (yummy little fun girls), and others are buffets (take what you want leave what you don\u2019t but keep in mind someone has been breathing all over it). If you understand this doctrine you know that you shouldn\u2019t just have protein or just desert. I am NOT LOOKING for a mate but if I were to happen upon one just know she will HAVE to be a full course meal. So is Little Miss Asshole\u2019s Package a bad one? Nah- it\u2019s just I\u2019m not the intended recipient! Imagine opening your Grandma\u2019s year supply of Depends during Christmas- totally practical for her, but you have complete control over your urine and bowels so you don\u2019t need them!<br \/>\n    Letting someone you know deep down isn\u2019t good for you for whatever the reason doesn\u2019t mean they are an awful person it just means that they aren\u2019t your \u201cforever\u201d. It takes an incredible sense of discernment to be able to do this correctly. Trust me I know- I\u2019ve cut people off both far too soon and far too late. Like Kanye said in \u2018Heard em Say\u2019 \u201cThey say people in ya life are seasons- and anything happen it\u2019s for a reason\u201d. <\/p>\n<p>My feelings are best expressed in song<br \/>\nHeard Em Say- Kaye West<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"420\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/k7Bu3tp4lLg?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><br \/>\ntill next time&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last week I was at Bible Study when I heard something that really stuck with me \u201cJust because they aren\u2019t for you doesn\u2019t mean they are a bad a person\u201d Sounds like a simple thought for most; but for me personally I have a really tough time cutting people off who are generally good and probably GREAT mates for someone else. Learning to tactfully trim people from your life is essential no matter how good they are especially when it comes to matters of the heart. The trick is letting the people go for real not just sending them on a sabbatical. I will finally go on record and say Little Miss Asshole would be an outstanding woman for a girl who can deal with her. I am almost certain I am not that girl. She is sensitive, attractive, gainfully employed, loves to shop, well spoken, educated, likes shoes and really finds joy in purchasing them for her mate etc. However it\u2019s not a package that will keep me satisfied. It\u2019s like this: women are like food some are main courses (the protein), others are side dishes (girls that are good little side pieces but won\u2019t ever be enough on their own), while some are desserts (yummy little fun girls), and others are buffets (take what you want leave what you don\u2019t but keep in mind someone has been breathing all over it). If you understand this doctrine you know that you shouldn\u2019t just have protein or just desert. I am NOT LOOKING for a mate but if I were to happen upon one just know she will HAVE to be a full course meal. So is Little Miss Asshole\u2019s Package a bad one? Nah- it\u2019s just I\u2019m not the intended recipient! Imagine opening your Grandma\u2019s year supply of Depends during Christmas- totally practical for her, but you have complete control over your urine and bowels so you don\u2019t need them! Letting someone you know deep down isn\u2019t good for you for whatever the reason doesn\u2019t mean they are an awful person it just means that they aren\u2019t your \u201cforever\u201d. It takes an incredible sense of discernment to be able to do this correctly. Trust me I know- I\u2019ve cut people off both far too soon and far too late. Like Kanye said in \u2018Heard em Say\u2019 \u201cThey say people in ya life are seasons- and anything happen it\u2019s for a reason\u201d. My feelings are best expressed in song Heard Em Say- Kaye West till next time&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-175","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dating"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4HIFu-2P","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/littlemisslesbo.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/175","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/littlemisslesbo.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/littlemisslesbo.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/littlemisslesbo.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/littlemisslesbo.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=175"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/littlemisslesbo.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/175\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/littlemisslesbo.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=175"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/littlemisslesbo.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=175"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/littlemisslesbo.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=175"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}