• As I See It

    Doing what I NEED vs what I want.

    If moving to California hasn’t done anything else for me- it has made me challenge my comfort. I insisted on staying in Atlanta despite my floundering because it was comfortable. I knew people and the area, I am something of…

  • Dating

    Modus Operandi

    Ok, as I spoke of in my last post I’ve been feeling like I could be open to the idea of love again. With that said, ya girl is out here dating and playing by my own rules. It’s nice…

  • Dating

    All the Feels

    Hey kittens, I’m settling in ok… I mean I can walk again (I was out 50 days) I started a lil temp gig that seems like a good fit (the view from my desk is sick’nin af!) Ya girl Is…

  • RECPIE OF THE WEEK

    Compound Butter 2 Ways!!!

    Compound butter is a way to add insane flavor to any dish! It’s my favorite kitchen cheat, I try to keep 2-3 in my freezer. Today I’ll tell yall about my seafood/veggies butter and my red meat butter (super clutch!).…

  • Dating

    Love don’t live here anymore

    Bruh!!! The Hopeful Romantic is honestly not out here romancing!! I love the concept of love and the relationships I’ve been in were a dope feeling until they weren’t anymore. If you’re a regular here you know I’m for good for…

  • Side B

    that one time I broke my ankle

    Okay, no excuses… I’ve been kind of out of touch. On October 30th around 7:45 pm I broke my ankle. YES, as I excitedly readied myself for Halloween I had 5 steps to make on the 4th step my ankle…

  • As I See It

    Strange(r)

    This move has been a culture shock. As much as I adore the diversity and free minds of California sometimes its a lot, sometimes I feel incredibly alienated from reality here. By birth, I’m a California Girl, by choice I’m Southern. I’m open…

  • Side B

    The Pursuit of Happiness Tour 2018

    I’ve done it! I’ve trekked across our nation, traded grits for couscous….AND I’M BACK IN THE BAY! My lover turned strictly platonic friend Tara and I loaded up her Jeep and set sail for a 14.5 day 8 state road-plane-roadtrip.…

  • SLAY,  Uncategorized

    The Last Slay

    Slay Atlanta is an event I birthed out of my not loving the party life in Atlanta. I mean when I first moved here (many moons ago) Atlanta nightlife for lesbians was amazing. Well, to be fully honest I’m not…