As I See It
rants... of a more ranty variety
I’ve been in Atlanta for 2 weeks
So, my silly ass took a vacation to the place I’ve been able to banish my blues to…ATLANTA! And bitch, what in the entire fuck was I thinking? I won’t say I’m unhappy here, I will however say I am…
That One Time LML was compromised
Whew Chilaayy! I Know I’m not the best at keeping up with this here website… I’m flaky AF when it comes to blogging. BUT THE MONTH LEADING UP TO PRIDE MY WHOLE WEBSITE WAS TAKEN OVER! I’m back and I…
Let’s be Clear
Soooo I have this habit of asking women who are on my line “what is your intention?” It helps to clear any confusion. I mean I don’t ask EVERY person this but once things start to feel a little flirty…
Doing what I NEED vs what I want.
If moving to California hasn’t done anything else for me- it has made me challenge my comfort. I insisted on staying in Atlanta despite my floundering because it was comfortable. I knew people and the area, I am something of…
Strange(r)
This move has been a culture shock. As much as I adore the diversity and free minds of California sometimes its a lot, sometimes I feel incredibly alienated from reality here. By birth, I’m a California Girl, by choice I’m Southern. I’m open…
Friends with Exes
People have lead me to believe that not being friends with your exes is a sign of immaturity. And, I must admit that I’ve mistakenly gave in to this erroneous notion. Now, there are some exes and past flings I…
To the President Elect and His bitchass homebois in Congress
You surely do not know or give a damn about me, I am just a young black woman from Fremont, Ca who has chosen to live in Atlanta, Ga (yes, that city that you referred to as crime ridden and…
So much hate….
I’ve struggled for a few days with this post as I know I have a social responsibility as a LGBT blogger and as a human to speak out during times like this. I’m having a hard time wrapping my mind…
the day doves cried
Like most 80’s Babies I was raised on Prince’s music (and movies), I vividly remember the 1991 MTV Awards and the yellow suit with the butt cheeks cut out, I even remember rolling my eyes at my Mom to the…
Down the Rabbit Hole
I hardly ever remember the moment I fell in love- I do, however, always remember when I fell out of love. Not only do I remember when I fell out of love I also remember what I was wearing, where…
