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    Doing what I NEED vs what I want.

    If moving to California hasn’t done anything else for me- it has made me challenge my comfort. I insisted on staying in Atlanta despite my floundering because it was comfortable. I knew people and the area, I am something of…

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    The Last Slay

    Slay Atlanta is an event I birthed out of my not loving the party life in Atlanta. I mean when I first moved here (many moons ago) Atlanta nightlife for lesbians was amazing. Well, to be fully honest I’m not…

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    Forever I Love Atlanta

    After kinda going back and forth about it for quite some time I’ve decided to leave Atlanta. I moved here nearly 15 years ago for college (Yikes!) And after the culture shock wore off I fell so deep in love…

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    31 and hella fun

    So I just had a birthday and was super preoccupied with not having yet another shitty birthday. As you all may recall from previous birthday post my absentee father died on my birthday. It sucks mostly because him not being…

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    Grace under fire

    Ooooh the enemy has been busy at work baby! “They” say the enemy is always coming for people who are moving in their gifts. Between LML suffering due to my writer’s block and some group of promoters hijacking the name…

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    My friend, my Ex

    So, I as of late I’ve been very unromantically friendly with one of my exes. Since our traumatic breakup we have grown into friends. Often times when I’m in a difficult headspace she’s the first person I call. Little Miss…

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    a different Thanksgiving

      I am randomly not into Thanksgiving…. Something about celebrating the taking of land, spreading of small pox, and killing of the indigenous people of said land just doesn’t sit right with me. Despite my love of cooking and Thanksgiving…