• Dating

    Tired of First Dates

    I know I’ve said time and time again that I’m “done dating” and me being the lover of love that I am- I’m rapidly smitten by another woman. Here’s the thing I’m hella tired of awkward interactions and first dates.…

  • Dating

    From here on….

    Fuck me, I’ve been distracted. So distracted in fact that I wrote a post singing the praises of a woman then deleted her post. Over the last month or so I’ve been revaluating my approach to romance… until I can…

  • Dating

    the switch up

    I’ve changed a lot in the last 4 years both mentally and physically. I’ve been put in a slew of life altering situations some for the better and others not so much. Some of the shit that I’ve endured has…

  • Dating

    Ready?

    “I’m not ready for a relationship” Is something most of us have said however I cannot recall ever saying that I’m ready for relationship. I usually end up in relationship underprepared for dealing with my emotions or anyone else’s for…

  • Dating

    in theory

    I had a talk with a buddy of mine where I became super comfortable and said something that I wasn’t aware that I felt… but it was a legitimate feeling (as I often do while conversing with people whom I…

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    bag lady no more!

    Being self-aware sometimes can be a bit of a burden… But like Ice Cube warned us all “you betta check yoself, befo you wreck yoself”. I nearly wrecked myself several times over if I’m being honest. In the past I…

  • Dating

    My New Thang

      As you guys may recall, last summer I went to the DC area and had an incredibly shitty time. Being that my girl Kat is getting married and I’m in her wedding I thought it would be a good…