whatever is going on in my love life, or shall we say like life… warning this may dry up

Tired of First Dates

I know I’ve said time and time again that I’m “done dating” and me being the lover of love that I am- I’m rapidly smitten by another woman. Here’s the thing I’m hella tired of awkward interactions and first dates. For the first time since my breakup with Little Miss Lesson Learned (crazytown) I think I’m PREPARED to love again.… Read more →


From here on….

Fuck me, I’ve been distracted. So distracted in fact that I wrote a post singing the praises of a woman then deleted her post. Over the last month or so I’ve been revaluating my approach to romance… until I can figure out how to balance my creative life (LML and SLAY) and dating I will have to either date differently… Read more →

the switch up

I’ve changed a lot in the last 4 years both mentally and physically. I’ve been put in a slew of life altering situations some for the better and others not so much. Some of the shit that I’ve endured has been self-inflicted while others were so far out of my control they seemed to be suffocating me. During my change… Read more →


“I’m not ready for a relationship” Is something most of us have said however I cannot recall ever saying that I’m ready for relationship. I usually end up in relationship underprepared for dealing with my emotions or anyone else’s for that matter. I am in an extremely self-aware space for the first time in my life; being totally self-aware creates… Read more →

in theory

I had a talk with a buddy of mine where I became super comfortable and said something that I wasn’t aware that I felt… but it was a legitimate feeling (as I often do while conversing with people whom I feel comfortable around) Where I stated that maybe to women I date I’m better in theory (vs reality). She inquired… Read more →

bag lady no more!

Being self-aware sometimes can be a bit of a burden… But like Ice Cube warned us all “you betta check yoself, befo you wreck yoself”. I nearly wrecked myself several times over if I’m being honest. In the past I was not as protective as I should’ve been over myself between poor choices in lovers, work, hell even friends left… Read more →


My New Thang

  As you guys may recall, last summer I went to the DC area and had an incredibly shitty time. Being that my girl Kat is getting married and I’m in her wedding I thought it would be a good idea for me to attend her bridal shower. Now, I bought this ticket in May and I met my New… Read more →