• Dating

    Modus Operandi

    Ok, as I spoke of in my last post I’ve been feeling like I could be open to the idea of love again. With that said, ya girl is out here dating and playing by my own rules. It’s nice…

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    All the Feels

    Hey kittens, I’m settling in ok… I mean I can walk again (I was out 50 days) I started a lil temp gig that seems like a good fit (the view from my desk is sick’nin af!) Ya girl Is…

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    Love don’t live here anymore

    Bruh!!! The Hopeful Romantic is honestly not out here romancing!! I love the concept of love and the relationships I’ve been in were a dope feeling until they weren’t anymore. If you’re a regular here you know I’m for good for…

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    Tired of First Dates

    I know I’ve said time and time again that I’m “done dating” and me being the lover of love that I am- I’m rapidly smitten by another woman. Here’s the thing I’m hella tired of awkward interactions and first dates.…

  • Dating

    From here on….

    Fuck me, I’ve been distracted. So distracted in fact that I wrote a post singing the praises of a woman then deleted her post. Over the last month or so I’ve been revaluating my approach to romance… until I can…

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    the switch up

    I’ve changed a lot in the last 4 years both mentally and physically. I’ve been put in a slew of life altering situations some for the better and others not so much. Some of the shit that I’ve endured has…

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    Ready?

    “I’m not ready for a relationship” Is something most of us have said however I cannot recall ever saying that I’m ready for relationship. I usually end up in relationship underprepared for dealing with my emotions or anyone else’s for…